Mr. TakeMe and I have seen each other most nights since I last posted. He doesn’t like being alone, so we’ve had nights of just cuddling or mostly cuddling, mixed with nights of sex. I’m starting to get attached, and I’m pretty sure that is going to ruin everything. But I think he’s getting attached too. Maybe. Tonight he totally […]
O. M. G. I just got home from Round 2 with Mr. Hottest One Night Stand (see previous post from over a month ago). Let me start by saying, tonight I was supposed to be with George. I wanted to be with George. Actually as hot as OMG tonight was with Mr. TakeMe, I’d still rather it was with George. […]
Yesterday, I had fun and yet didn’t. I met with a guy who wants to be submissive to me. He seems nice enough and on paper we seem to be a nice fit, but he’s Indian with a thick accent and I only understand about half of what he says. But we talked about things and I like the thought […]
I’m not in love and he caught my cold. Poor thing. He says he doesn’t regret it though. So I guess there’s that. Our most recent get-together had some issues. Minor things that could become big things. We’re still seeing each other. I think. We’ll see once his cold wears off. It’s still odd to me the way he encourages […]
Today I am recovering from one of the more confusing sexual encounters I’ve had… pretty much ever. Before I get into it, I do want to spell out that I am very much into consensual sexual acts of all sorts. Key word is consensual. And most risqué acts are discussed ahead of time to make sure both parties are into […]
I’ve been wondering why John and what was it all about. Because it’s obviously more than just John. It’s not like he has magical lips or a magic cock. And I think I’ve figured it out. What I got quickly with him – trust, communication, ease, safety – is what I am needing. A best male friend who wants to […]
Last week, I decided to un-retire my account on Collarme. I may or may not have mentioned this here. Mostly I did it out of curiosity. You know.. broaden my choices.. but mostly just to see who was still out there.
Then I saw the profile of this guy who for the most part seemed to be what I was looking for.. kinda.. except he has a girlfriend. He’s in an open relationship to so to speak, and is looking for someone on the side…
As some of you .. who really read deep into my blog.. have found out, I have dabbled in BDSM. I however avoid the “lifestyle” almost like the plague as those in the main organizations (BDSM teaching schools) freak me the hell out.. mostly because many of them think there’s a “Step by step” instruction on how to do it. […]
YourTango posted a story today (or it came across my proverbial desk today) about some new vibrating device that allows for mutual orgasms during sex.
Their Facebook post about it asked “We-gasm: Myth or Real Thing?”
My first thought was.. uh.. Is mutual orgasms during sex that rare? And then I got worried.
I’m a little sad today. Flattered I guess, but sad. An ex messaged me on OkStupid. I think I may have written about him here. It would have been the first few posts or so on here if he’s mentioned. We originally met via OkStupid when he pursued me like no body’s business. He’s extremely charming and has a way […]