Feb 072018
Life has gotten scary.

I haven’t written in a while. Mostly because I’ve not been dating or wanting to date or not even wanting to have sex. A few weeks ago, I realized it was because I was scared. But the scared back then wasn’t the scared I am. See since last June, I’ve had an ex that harasses me and stalks me. The […]

Feb 132011
I need a man who is just as bitchy as me..

The room was filled with hot young men… talented hot young men… but emphasis on young. The music was good, but so loud no one could talk without shouting. It honestly was a party that I would have killed to attend 15 years ago. As it turns out, 15 years is enough time to have grown old, finicky, and a party pooper.

We said goodbye to the host, and went to a bar nearby….

Feb 112011
Seeking a little genuine contact please...

So, tonight was interesting. I went out to party with some friends, and initially on entering I felt like no one really gave a crap if I was there. Maybe we don’t hang out enough or something. I am quite a bit of a loner a lot of the time, so my judgement on how often you have to see people to be “friends” might be a bit off.

Some of these are people that if they asked for help moving, I’d

Jan 012011
Happy New Years! (this had better be worth it)

I debated and stressed and freaked out about NYE on whether or not I should invite Ken to party with my friends and I. We’re still really new.. essentially only been dating a week.. and it’s a little early to be introducing him around to my friends (for me, introducing men I’m dating to my friends is something done when […]

Oct 042010
From Attractive to Eww in 60 seconds

The other night I was out helping a friend celebrate their birthday. I’m using the term “friend” loosely as I am not that close with this girl, but she’s a great gal and a lot of fun and runs in some of the same circles as me… a circle that I’ve sorely neglected as of late (and by late, I mean I’ve not been out in that circle but maybe once in the last 6 months). So I had some catching up to do.

Jan 232010

I’ve been in a funk. I really don’t want to go anywhere or do anything. I have reasons for this, which I won’t bore you with those details. Suffice it to say merely, that I’ve come to enjoy the simplicity of staying home by myself. But a friend of mine was having a birthday party, and as much as I […]

Dec 202009

Friday night, Ms Hottottie had invited me over to her place for a Christmas party. Since I’d just met her the day before, and I spent most of Friday holding my head thinking “OMG make the pain stop”.. I didn’t have much time to prepare any real Christmas goodies. So I loaded up a couple bottles of wine, a bag […]

Dec 132009

Last week, I was supposed to go out wednesday, but when a friend begged me to go to Speeddating on Thursday, I decided to just go out on Thursday instead. Then Thursday fell through, so when Friday came around I was looking for something to do. Evie called and wanted a ride to a birthday party. This girl’s birthday party […]